26 Apr 2024, 7:28 AM
This article are for those who really want to impress a girl and also make her fall in love with them and finally get the girl to date them. This issue has been men issue for a while and it is really important to know how to impress a girl and also how to deal with girls who are only interested in friendship which I will be explaining to you in this post..
1. DRESS TO IMPRESS
Dressing well is very important as it is not only will you look and smell attractive but it will show are how mature and capable you are to handle daily tasks, it will also be good if you can pay attention to her clothing style and try to wear the same style as this will help relate with you and find you familiar and easy to communicate with. All these will help you look more attractive.
Don’t forget to do these areas daily
Shower at least once a day
Keep your mouth clean
manage facial hair
Wear a combination deodorant-antiperspirant
Go easy on the cologne
Wear clean Clothes
2. BE POLITE
Been polite is very good advantage when trying to impress a girl but some people believe been polite means you are boring but that not so true but it means you know how to treat other people with respect and most girls wants their boyfriends to have such quality, so been polite shows you have such quality and that you are very considerate in doing things.
So consider using words like; Thank You, You are welcome, Please, I appreciate it, I would like for you and all those gentle men words
3. THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK
Most fall guilty in this part because we tend to talk anyhow with so much pride and confidence without waiting for a second to actually think of what we are saying in front of this lady thereby causing mix feelings or ideas in her mind about you.
There are certain topics you should stay clear off, such as
Don’t talk up other girls with the aim of getting her jealous
Avoid coming off as a bully
Don’t tell dirty Jokes
4. PAY HER SINCERE COMPLIMENTS
When around her, you should learn to say a nice, sincere and genuine compliment, some guys see it has difficult but its quite easy. All you have to do is to be very observant and notice the great features about her, this can be the way she smiles, the way she talks and so on. But be always be sincere because not all girls fall for flattering.
5. MAKE HER SPECIAL
Always make her feel special by dedicating time to her, don’t play hard to get, always try to be available when she needs you around, Go out of your way to help her, find little ways to let her know that you think she’s an extraordinary person, and she’ll definitely notice.
Breaking Out of the Friend zone
This section are those who find themselves with girls who are comfortable been friends and nothing more, there are ways to impress them to think other wise about there decision.
6. GET SOME SPACE AWAY FROM HER
It’s the hardest thing to do when you’re crazy about a girl, but it’s the only sure way to get out of the friend zone. If you want her to see you in a different light, you have to take some away time so your relationship can reset when you start interacting again.
7. SPEND SOMETIME ON SELF IMPROVEMENT
Dedicate the hours you would otherwise spend with her (or thinking about her) to feeling better about yourself. You’ll be a new and improved guy with better self-confidence, whether or not she’s interested in that at the end of the day. Remember that you’re not doing it for her right now — you’re doing it for you, so that you feel like the best version of yourself.
8. MAKE A FIRST IMPRESSION
After you’ve been away for awhile, you’ll have the chance to make another “first†impression when you’re ready to interact with her again. If you can play it the right way, she’ll start to see you in a whole new light.
9. DON’T OFFER YOUR TIME FREELY AGAIN
Instead of being constantly available for her whenever she wants, make her work a little for your attention. For instance, you’re not available to come over and watch romantic comedies with her while she complains about her latest break-up; however, you are available to take her to dinner on Friday if she’s interested.
10. DON’T WASTE TIME
After you re-initiate contact, don’t wait months to ask her out or otherwise move the relationship to the next level. Do it within the week.
Ask her out on a date that is clearly romantic. That means: dinner, on the weekend, just the two of you. She’ll get the hint.
State your feelings for her in a clear, confident way. Let her know that you’re interested in being more than friends. Tell her you’ll accept her decision if she’s not interested, but you can’t keep languishing in the friend zone.
Break the touch barrier. Hold her hand, give her a hug, offer to cuddle, or otherwise get physical contact on the table. Especially if the touch barrier was a characteristic of your earlier interactions, this is a pretty clear way to send her a message.
Remember that old Sean Connery movie quote: “The key to a woman’s heart is an unexpected gift at an unexpected time.†The gift doesn’t have to be extravagant — try something as simple as a single flower or her favorite treat. Don’t make a big deal about giving it to her, just do it with a smile and accept her thanks gracefully.
11. ACCEPT HER ANSWER
If you’ve tried everything to impress her and she’s still not interested in dating, back away gracefully. Sometimes the spark just isn’t there. You tried your best, and there are other girls out there who will appreciate the person you are. Move on with confidence!
